Tuesday, March 11, 2008

RIP





RC and Film Geek
April 4, 1987 to March 8, 2008

41 comments:

Sandy said...
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Amy said...

RC, I'm very sorry. We love you lots.

my two cents said...

It wasn't wasted time. You've got three GREAT kids. I am sorry you are hurting. I know you did everything you could.

Rose said...

I'm so sorry for what you're going through but you will come out on the other side. And although everyone will be bruised, everyone will recover and gain wisdom in ways that you can't even imagine now.

Stacie said...

Sending love and hugs to you...I am so sorry.

auntie barbie said...

I'm so sorry, my heart goes out to you and your family

ciara said...

((((r.c.))))i've been there, so i know how you are feeling. know that we all love you and are here if you need us xoxo

ciara said...

p.s. i'm going to email you later

Thalia's Child said...

Oh honey - I'm sorry you weren't able to get things worked out.

Much love to you, him and the kids. *hug*

Kaycie said...

I'm sorry, sweetie.

Willowtree said...

You doing anything this Friday night?

-Ann said...

So sorry to hear this. Hang in there.

ped crossing said...

So sorry. Hang in there. Let us know if we can do anything. A shoulder to cry on, cookies in the mail, virtual girls night out. You name it.

Take care... hugs.

the mother of this lot said...

Sorry you couldn't work it out RC. I know you will have tried everything.

Aoj & The Lurchers said...

I am so sorry RC :( {{hugs}}

Flowerpot said...

Oh RC I am so sorry. Big hugs.

belle said...

Really, really sorry.

Jen said...

I'm sorry. So sorry, RC. Others have said it better (actually, Willowtree wins, but he always does), but we love you and are thinking of you. Virtual hugs aren't quite the same as real ones, but maybe if you get enough of 'em, it will be close. More hugs your way, girl.

laurie said...

i'm so sad for you. so sad. i know how hard this is. (a lot of us do. doug and i were both divorced before we got together.)

time lived is not time wasted. you know that. but it's hard to know that now.

when i was going through this myself, i used to have to bribe myself to eat. ("if i eat this muffin, i get to go slash his tires!!") (but of course i never did actually slash his tires. but what a wonderful thought it was.)

you need to find ways to make sure you take care of yourself, too.

Graham Cracker said...

So sorry. as others have said, I've been there and it is hard, very hard, but you will come out a different and stronger person. Be sure to accept the love and support of those around you.

Rudee said...

:-((

Happy in the Abyss said...

My sister,

Your blog entry made me cry. This is the second times in 2 days that something you have written has made me cry. Stop it!

That April day so long ago, I not only gained a sister, but the best friend ever. You will always be with me. You will always be my sister. You will always be my best friend. You will always mean more than the world to me. I love you and those boys more than I ever imagined I could. You can reach out to me whenever, although I am not sure anything we say would be audible through the tears.

You are never out of my thoughts and, at the risk of sounding like that dopey other sister, my prayers. I pray that you find a way to mend your heart and move forward. You are a strong, intelligent, beautiful woman and nobody, not even a man, can take that from you. Chin up! You are loved by many.

Love you much...and always!

Crystal Jigsaw said...

Hugs.

C xx

Akelamalu said...

Oh honey I don't know how you're feeling because it never happened to me, but I'm feeling for you. x

aims said...

Ah Shit!

aims said...

(hope you know what I mean by that)

Perhaps - Dammit!!

Corey~living and loving said...

NOt at all what I was hoping would transpire for you....but I do know that you gave it the best you had. My heart goes out to you all. so many hugs.

Potty Mummy said...

Would love to have the wit and wisdom write something moving and that would help. But all I can say is - bollocks.

Am thinking of you, RC. x

Marti said...

RC

YOu made me cry. I am so sorry you are going through this. If I could take some of your pain, I would.

Still wishing you would make a trip down to Austin. You always have a place here...not only in my home but my heart.

Diana said...

I'm very sorry.

Everyone else has said it better, but it bears saying, again.

Mya said...

I'm really sorry RC. I'll send you Hugh Grant's number.
Thinking of you.
Mya xxx

holly said...

i'm very sorry too, although i don't yet really know you. but i think we have something in common.

Kimberly said...

Oh hun...I'm so, so sorry. Can't imagine how much this has been and is hurting. ~hugs~

Carolyn said...

I'm so sorry to know you're hurting. There's something on my blog for you...

Lil Mouse said...

:-( sorry

Eileen said...

RC,
I don't know why I'm tearing up, but I am. I am so very sorry. I know you have been trying so hard to not get to this place.

In the end, you have to do what is best for you and your boys. Believe in yourself.

You are never alone! If you ever need anything or just want to talk, please know I'm here.
Love.

softinthehead said...

So sorry to hear that, try and look forward not back.

janet said...

oh, rc... i'm so sorry.

i don't know what else to tell you that hasn't been said before (and better) by others.

but we're all here for you.

hugs

Swearing Mother said...

RC! So sorry. Sending you big love.

Jo Beaufoix said...

So sorry lovely RC.
Hugs to all of you.

Iota said...

Don't know what to say... just whatever everyone else has.